Can’t recall for how long we’ve been trying to get APS (Adult Protective Services) to help us get things accomplished to help Mom, with Dad being the road block.
Well, since APS has no teeth and can’t do as much as they claim, they decided to “change their focus” and come after my sister and I if progress isn’t made, since we are easier to target via current laws, regardless of whether it is just or not. Lesson learned I guess.
We will be okay with Mom, we have made significant progress (independent of this annoyance of APS), thanks to the hospice social worker. Of course, when it comes to Dad’s turn, we are going to have to be careful, he will not accept care so readily.
For now, a reminder, no good deed goes unpunished, at least to some degree…